As I understand, when you press ALL OFF, you want the two OFF buttons activated.
Setting for the ALL OFF = momentary, send on only, midi on = 127, make the two OFF buttons subcontrols.
If you want the supercontrol to turn off buttons, since there is no send off only, set the on value to 0.
The Masters Class and Demo Layouts (on same page) have some more advanced subcontrol examples:
https://mididesigner.com/qa/7955/layout-mdp2-masters-course-tips-and-techniques